Finding Love

Knowing if the guy you have recently met, the man that sends your heart into a spin and creates a surge of adrenalin through your veins when he calls is really your soulmate and not just a lustful pleasure is vexing question to consider.

Often when finding love, we get swept away with the initial excitement of someone new.

Finding love, separating love and lust in the early days is difficult, if not impossible. More time together is required to really answer this question.

So in order to help our readers find out ‘how to know if he is my Soulmate’, we have put together some tips to help you through this process

1. You have defined this man in your mind before you have met him.

2. Your soul tells you that this man is right for you. There are no doubts.

3. You are friends as well as passionate lovers. Emotional and physical attraction for one another needs to be present. For a true soul mate relationship to occur, one cannot exist without the other.

4. Within the relationship, you have remained 100% true to yourself. If you have had to bend and twist yourself into someone whom you are not in order to be with the man you believe is your soulmate, then he is quite simply NOT your soulmate. If you have had to make huge sacrifices or compromises to your lifestyle, your goals and your dreams, then you are not with your soulmate. Simple as that.

5. He is fully aware of your deepest wishes, desires and dreams in life and he SUPPORTS them.

6. You have a deep commitment to the relationship and to realize each other’s individual goals and dreams within the relationship.

7. You trust this man and you are both loyal to one another.

8. The benefits of being with him far outweigh the costs.

9. Nothing could make you happier than being in love with this man.

10. You cannot imagine being away from this man for long periods.

11. You have a strong gut feeling that you are with the right man. You have eyes only for this man. If you keep thinking about another men, then this guy is not your soulmate. If you have a feeling that you are ‘settling’, then you are generally right. You are. Don’t!

12. You make magic together as a team. He supports your goals and dreams as much as you do his.

13. Your soul journeys seem to complement each other.

14. You share the same values and ideals in life, but respect your differences.

15. You want to tell each other everything and have nothing to hide from each other.

16. There are no unanswered questions about what this man is about. You have a good idea that you know the real him.

17. He makes you feel wonderful. You feel a sense of peace and confidence around him. There is no anxiety or insecurity that he may leave you for someone else. When he goes out, you do not think that he is looking for anyone else. You do not feel threatened by other women.

18. There is no sense of urgency – you do not feel that you need to sleep with him or do anything else in order to keep him.

19. You feel alive and energized with him.

20. He inspires you and makes you want to be a better person.

21. Together, you are a powerful force. As a team, you feel you can conquer the world. You feel that you can do anything together.

22. You do not need him to validate you or make you feel complete.

23. Time is an important element in determining whether a man is your soulmate. With time, you will have the benefit of shared experience. We believe that three to six months is a good indication to see whether this man is your soulmate. Seeing the way he reacts in a number of different situations is the best soulmate determiner.

Finding love is an exciting process that everyone should enjoy. Seize the opportunity to take action to find your soulmate so that you can live a fulfilling and happy life.

Find My Soulmate

Are you always asking yourself, “Why can’t I find my soulmate?”.
Are you presenting yourself in a manner in which your soulmate would find appealing? What kind of personality would your soulmate possess? Would they laugh with you, love with you and be free with you? Then are YOU fun? Happy? Are you loving enough? Are you being free enough with yourself that they can see the real and true you?

If you become what YOU yourself are looking for in a soulmate, or become complementary to what you are looking for, then you will be ready to attract what you are looking for.

This means you will have to go out of your comfort zone and realize some personal growth. Most people are not that aware of themselves. They think everyone should be just like them, but then, that is why they are never truly happy. If you want to have a soulmate who completes you, then you must dig deep and do what needs to be done to attract them to you. No else is at fault for your own faults or weaknesses. The only one responsible for you, is you! It’s time to do something about it. By acknowledging that this will be a lifestyle change, you are taking the first step to creating a better life for yourself.

Now it is time to get out there and do it! And don’t think about this as a chore, because YOU are going to reap all the rewards and benefits from TRANSFORMING yourself into a BETTER you!

Write down what you want in a soulmate, once you have done that, take the next vital step. Ask yourself: ‘What do I need to BE, DO, and HAVE in order to attract my soulmate?’

Example:

If you admire a man who is in shape and well kept, then more than likely he is not going to find an overweight, uninspired woman as a mate. So you would have to start BEING fit and healthy-minded. This can happen by you actually working out and starting to change your diet. This would also require you to get signed up at your local gym, commit to going at least 4 times a week and by eating healthy foods both at home and at work. Get the gist?

You need to make this list and check it twice.

Who do I need to BE to attract and find my soulmate?

1.__________________________________________________________

2._________________________________________________________

3.__________________________________________________________

4.__________________________________________________________

5.__________________________________________________________

What do I need to DO to attract my soulmate?

1._________________________________________________________

2.__________________________________________________________

3.__________________________________________________________

4.__________________________________________________________

5.__________________________________________________________

And the most important, is that list of QUALITIES you already possess that would make your ideal soulmate look at you!

1.__________________________________________________________

2.___________________________________________________________

3.__________________________________________________________

4._________________________________________________________

5._________________________________________________________

The next step of your transformation is to take one item from each list and start working on it, changing it or improving it.

Be the best of who you really are. Remember what you wrote about what you wanted for yourself and your life? That’s where you want to place your focus from now on.

Let’s go back to the original list you made of the qualities you would like your soulmate to possess. Read through it again and find out how you can round him out. How would you complete him?

You already have special and unique qualities and characteristics that your soulmate will appreciate and that will really enhance your relationship. These are the qualities you are going to capitalize on.

So, what other traits will you be able to incorporate to make that happen?

If you are being the very best you can be, you will radiate a certain aura – a confident and happy one – which will attract your soulmate more easily to you. When you start to exude these feelings, you will never have to wonder where your soulmate is, because they will come looking for you! Nothing will draw people more to you than when you feel comfortable in your own skin.

Take the first step in faith. You don’t have to see the whole staircase. Just take the first step – MARTIN LUTHER KING JR.

Hopefully by taking this process, you won’t be asking how do i find my soulmate“? again.

Check out the real system if you would like to know more about ‘how to find my soulmate‘

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It is free and provides you with enough information to commence your journey to finding true love.

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Visualization is by far one of the most powerful tools for good setting and attracting what you want. Yet few people know how to properly visualize. With the right technique you can begin to see outstanding results in successfully attracting what you want, granted you full apply what you learn.

First you are visualizing all the time. You may not be aware of it but you are always conjuring up images in your mind. When you are speaking on the telephone to someone you are most of ten times trying to see in your mind what they are telling you. You also visualize when you are deep in thought. When you are worrying about paying your debt or worrying about the way you would really like to live your life you are also visualizing what you want.

The hard part however is to use that creative force to actually attract the things you want. This is where many people go terribly wrong.

Here is a great test to help you understand the most effective way visualize. Think of the last time you were deep in thought. Now try to remember what that felt like. If you can recall that time, you will notice that you were deep inside of yourself. You were unaware of anyone or anything and as you were allowing yourself to visualize you could feel clearly that you were having the experience as if it were real. That is the power of visualization.

When people ask all the time How do I visualize the things I want, I tell them the same way you visualize the things that you don’t want. You see when you are feeling anxious and fearful you lock yourself away in your inner mind with those images. You loose sight of other possibilities and if it is something that happened to you, then you recreate it in its full detail with all your emotions all over again.

Try to immerse yourself with full emotions when you are trying to create the things you want. Many thoughts may come to distract you but if you will redirect your mind to what you do want your mind will be trained to hold that thought.

There are many tools and techniques that can greatly empower your ability to visualize if you really have a hard time. You can add extreme magnetism to any mental image you want to create as long as you apply the right technique.

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A lot has been said about the power of intention, yet many still do not get its true significance. This article is written with the intention (no pun intended) to clarify by looking at the mental components and processes of intention. Once you have seen the full picture, it will be easier to understand why intention is so powerful.

One of the limitations of conveying a message or meaning with words is that the word itself has deeper meanings which we do not see, thus we miss out the deeper processes and qualities that are associated with the particular word. Intention is one such word. To understand it, we need to look deeper.

Definition of Intention

The definition of intention is, according to Merriam Webster Online Dictionary, a determination to act in a certain way. Intention, therefore, is a desire to act. We can see here that there are two very important components to the quality of intention.

The first is the desire or determination and the second is the action involved. For intention to work for you, both components must be there.

Desire

The desire we talk about here is one that is clear and is associated with a will or determination to act on the desire. This clear desire or intent in our mind is our asking or letting the universe know that this is what we want to manifest. The act of publicly declaring your intention works to clarify what you want as well as to strengthen your resolve to act on it. You become committed. You are bound by your words. You also weakened your inner resistance to your stated intention.

When your intention is clear, the universe can easily process the instructions you gave it. This is in contrast to a wishy-washy, uncertain, non-committal kind of desire or wanting that serves only to confuse the universe and everyone else trying to help you. Ask and it is given, and with a clear committed intention, the universe obediently gives you what you asked for.

The Art of Allowing

However, asking is only the first step in the process of creation. The next step is allowing yourself to receive. This process of allowing is not as simple as it seems for it requires great faith in the universe. You cannot receive if you do not believe that the universe will provide.

This is an interesting paradox.

When you do not believe that the universe will provide, then you get exactly what you believe. In this case, you get nothing. When this happens, then it unfortunately reinforced your lack of trust in the universe and perpetuates the vicious cycle of distrust in the universe. On the other hand, when you have absolute faith in the universe, you get what you believe and what you asked for gets manifested for you.

Thus the world’s most famous manifestor said, “Ask and know that it is done, and you shall receive it.”

In short, ask – believe – receive!

So, what can we do if we do not believe in the universe? How can we replace this limiting belief with a better one? There are in fact many methods to transform our beliefs. We will delve into this in another article.

Action

To receive, you have to act on the little coincidences, synchronicity and opportunities that seem to come to you at the right place at the right time. Acting on them in alignment with your intention will move you towards your goal, which is the manifested product of your intention. Intention, then, is the cause and your goal manifested the effect. This is true for all creation.

Each must begin in the mind (intention) and ends in physical manifestation (form).

Dr. Tim Ong is a medical doctor who runs his own thriving medical practice. In his free time, he enjoys giving public talks, teaching meditation and offering his service to hospice work in the community. He also has keen interest in self improvement, mind science and spirituality. Dr. Ong is the webmaster of Kayaria.com, MindScience101.com and TheSelfImprovementSite.com.

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If you would like to find out how you can find your Soulmate in Six Easy Steps.
Click on the link at The Soulmate System .
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Are you ready for this?

It really is a LAW.

Okay! It is not the kind you find at city hall, in law books or even at law school.

It is the kind that is happening all the time. I really mean, all the time, every second in your life.

Whether you are in a good mood, bad mood or unsure of how you feel it is happening every moment.

You are constantly attracting things into your life whether you are conscious of it or not.

More importantly you are attracting in your life right now, and right now and right now.

You are attracting exactly what it is that you do want in to your life.

Yes! You read that right.

What is happening is that you are giving your energy, attention and focus to whatever it is that you are attracting and getting more and more of the same thing over and over again.

You know the kind of things that you just love and want more and more of.

Or

You could also being attracting the awful things that you just hate and would rather not have in your life.

Those kinds of things where you felt like you have abundance in your life and then those kinds of things where you felt lack or scarcity in your life.

What this all means is that you have attracted all of it, whether it is good or bad.

You are responsible for whatever comes into your life.

I know that for some of you that is painful to hear.

I can hear you saying right now “Why in the world would I do something like that?”

You have two kinds of thoughts and you may only be aware of your conscious thoughts and there is another kind of thought that is very, very powerful.

These thoughts are in the background and those thoughts are the ones that are attracting what you are getting into your life.

These are called subconscious thoughts. When they are in harmony with what you consciously intend to attract then this is what you will attract.

And when this happens life is great!

Have you ever had thoughts and beliefs, and somehow they were not a match to your conscious dreams and your wishes and you didn’t attract what you wanted no matter how much you wanted it?

Here is why! Those subconscious beliefs have more strength than your conscious beliefs.

For some of you this may be what runs your life.

Now forget about blaming yourself or feeling guilty. After all, you weren’t aware of the unconscious beliefs working in a way that they have in been in your life until maybe now.

Now that you are aware, you can do something different.

When you get rid of the inner self limiting beliefs this helps to speed up the Law of Attraction and get whatever it is you’re trying to achieve or attract.

Hang on to your hat! It happens fast.

You will be using the Law of Attraction deliberately and intentionally

You will have the Law of Attraction work for you all of the time rather than, some of the time and in way that you want.

Now you can experienced the incredible power of the Law of Attraction, and take it to a whole new level when eliminating those self limiting beliefs.

When you do this your subconscious beliefs will match your conscious beliefs and magic will happen in your life using the Law of Attraction.

Copyright © 2008 Beverly Boston. Beverly Boston. If you like this article, and want to learn more about how I help women ages 50-55 also known as “prime time” women who are struggling because they continually seem to be attracting the wrong kinds of relationships. Some women seem to attract negative people or maybe even situations again and again and they do don’t know why. But what I do is I really help women attract the ideal relationship, partner or opportunity. You know what? Have you ever seen the movie called “The Secret”? Oh! Well that movie talked about the Law of Attraction and a lot of people I work with really want to know about it but they don’t know where to go, so I show them exactly how to do this and how to apply it to their life. I help women attract ideal relationships, friends, opportunities plus much, much more. This is just really the beginning! For more information visit http://beverlyboston.wordpress.com or call 604-727-4363

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Soul mates

Namaste, a Hindu expression, roughly translates into “that which is of the Divine in me greets that which is of the Divine in you.” And when we reflect on this simple expression, we find that the Sanskrit language of the soul resonates with us all on a deeper, more spiritual level — and this is how, too, many a soul can reacquaint itself with its identical counterpart.

Believe it or not, our intuition plays an essential role in discovering exactly who our soul mates are. Throughout our lifetimes, we have certainly come upon an individual to whom we’re inclined. Suddenly, you feel this sense of “knowing” — though you’ve never met that person before. And, it is in that “chance meeting” that we discover how much alike we are. The “chance meeting,” however, is no accident; a matter of fact, it is not by chance at all. There are no “accidents” in life. Remember, every encounter and every facet of our lives is laid out for us to explore — including the journey in finding our soul mates.

Whether or not one believes in the possibility of reincarnation, it is important to note that each of us has at one time or another met an individual to whom we’ve been drawn like a magnet. Accordingly, our mutual bond helps us to rediscover the life light in each other. Perhaps in a not-too-distant past, we shared experiences and/or love, and that is what has drawn us together. There are NO accidents in these “chance encounters.”

But how do you discover your soul mate? That depends entirely on how evolved you are on a spiritual plane. Euphoric love is such a heightened state of emotional awareness that one could liken this feeling to the ultimate high. And when we have opened ourselves up to invite another into our sacred space of love, we often discover the vast similarities of our likes and dislikes…but that is simply not enough to awaken our soul mate experience. One must resolve to live in an absolute state of awareness, unlike “euphoric love,” but that of Divine love to reignite the passion and discovery of one’s soul mate.

You see, the difference between a state of euphoria and a relaxed state of heightened awareness is that our sense of heightened awareness is what essentially gives us the innate ability to “see” who are twin soul mate is; not like euphoria — the beginning stage of infatuation, which can sometimes blind us from the truth of the matter.

So here we are, another Valentine’s Day, and we still haven’t discovered our soul mate — don’t be discouraged. Many travelers haven’t found their soul mate because they’ve been all-consumed by either euphoria or emotional blockages. But don’t despair; there is a way to rediscover your twin flame in the vast expanse that we call Earth: First, we must throw out all preconceptions and misconception of what love is supposed to be. There are no perfect physical unions, but there can be perfect spiritual unions. And when we resolve to love others with absolute love, we discover a whole new realm of life.

If you haven’t honed in on your inner wisdom, now is the time to do so. Now ask yourself, “Am I looking for love?” or “Am I seeking my soul mate?” Which of the two do you desire most? If you’ve decided on the latter and truly want to reunite your soul mates, then you must nurture your inner consciousness. Awaken your mind through meditation, peaceful reflection and gear up for the expedition of your life. If you are intended to meet your soul mate, you will. The intention, however, must coexist in both your mental and emotional being. To achieve this state of awareness, you must be focused on your anticipated result.

How do you know if you’ve met your soul mate? Like two small embers, sparks will ignite an inferno of emotions. You will be flooded with a sense of “knowingness” on a very soul-full level. This is not euphoria, rather, a very intense state of emotional, mental, and spiritual unity that transcends the normalcy of physical love. The nicest part of this soul mate reunion is that once you have received it, it remains steadfast in your life. The flames can never be distinguished.

Are you ready to explore and fulfill your destiny with your soul mate? All things are possible through God — and yes, even finding your soul mate is one of those possibilities. Understand that like all goals in life, the quest for finding our soul mate takes effort and patience. Enlighten yourself by reigniting your life light…the rest will come in time.

Until we speak again, I am

Joan Marie, your Intuition Expert

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Soul Mates: Discovering Yours
By Joan Marie Whelan

About the Author: Joan Marie Whelan, an internationally known intuitive specialist, business consultant, medium, and coach travels throughout the United States sharing her gifts and the Manifestation Method with solo-preneurs, professionals, small business owners, and large companies. Her much anticipated first book, “Self- Discovery: The Nine Principles to Reveal Your Sacred Gifts” will be published later this year. For more information about Joan Marie and her upcoming, exclusive events, please go to: http://www.joanmariewhelan.com

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If you would like to find out how you can find your Soulmate in Six Easy Steps.
Click on the link at The Soulmate System .
For a free copy of the 24 page Step One to The Soulmate System, click here
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The number of potentially deadly hazards to your relationship is astounding…it makes you wonder why people even try anymore. Well cheer up…for those of us who DO try, the good news is that most of worst things that can ruin your relationship are completely preventable! Five of the most particularly nasty ones are 100% avoidable, as you will soon see.

1) Infidelity. Also known as CHEATING on your partner. Boys and girls, if you can’t seem to fully comprehend the idea that sleeping around is a BAD thing to do that can emotionally destroy your partner…you deserve to be alone, I just feel bad for the person who loved you and got hurt because of it. The rules are simple: don’t cheat. When you commit to a relationship with someone, that means everyone else becomes OFF-LIMITS. Honestly, there’s no reason you should even want to breach your partner’s trust in you…not if you have any shred of human decency.

2) Lack of even a smidgeon of trust in your partner. Ladies are stereotyped as being the worst with this, but guys are just as bad sometimes. People, your partner is not going to go rambling around and getting into trouble with members of the opposite sex if you leave him or her alone for fifteen minutes. Endless phone calls to check in on your partner, harassment as to where he or she has been the instant he/she gets in the door…it can be funny in the movies, but in real life it’s exhausting and claustrophobic. If you can’t trust your partner, you shouldn’t be in a relationship with him or her. Lay off.

3) Lack of regard for your partner’s feelings, or emotional support. I know, it’s such a cliched expression that I feel silly just using it, but not giving your partner the emotional support he or she needs is a painful and self-esteem damaging thing. When the one you love has a difficult time seeing how much you DO love him or her, it hurts! Most of this can be helped just by listening to your partner…really listening, and responding like a human person rather than a parrot. A little support from the one who loves you isn’t too much to ask, so don’t be stingy in giving it.

4) Allowing fights and lovers’ quarrels to come outside their place in a relationship. Every time two people are put together in trying conditions for any period of time, a little conflict is going to occur. It’s healthy, it’s natural…it gets the air cleared and enlightens us as to what’s making our partners unhappy, and by knowing it we can fix it. What you DON’T want is to turn a fight into a war where cruel things are slung about, feelings are hurt, and relationships are unraveled. Accept that there will be fights, but don’t let them break you two apart…excessive conflict and stress ruins a lot of relationships, so don’t let yours be one of them.

5) Stagnancy in a relationship. It’s genuinely sad to me whenever I see or hear of two people who loved each other like crazy just sort of dissipate from lack of any real passion in the relationship. People, never forget what a blessing every second with your partner really is, and help your guy or girl feel that you feel that way in any way you can. Lack of spontaneity and activity dulls relationships down to grey fogs that eventually just disappear, and this is the saddest waste of two loving hearts there is.

Although unforseen things can happen, these basic 5 things are usually the worst of the relationship-killers. Luckily though, with a little loyalty and compassion you can prevent a lot of the things that could cripple your relationship! And when you think about it, is that really too much to ask you to do for the one you love and who loves you?

So try your hardest not to hurt your partner with these stupid and avoidable problems. There’s no reason the two of you can’t be swimming in happiness together, so long as you make a little effort to be a human being…and I don’t see that as an unfair requirement.

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Today I found a wonderful post from the blog site Who Will I Marry which delves into different aspects of soulmate relationships. Click here to view: