Finding Love

Knowing if the guy you have recently met, the man that sends your heart into a spin and creates a surge of adrenalin through your veins when he calls is really your soulmate and not just a lustful pleasure is vexing question to consider.

Often when finding love, we get swept away with the initial excitement of someone new.

Finding love, separating love and lust in the early days is difficult, if not impossible. More time together is required to really answer this question.

So in order to help our readers find out ‘how to know if he is my Soulmate’, we have put together some tips to help you through this process

1. You have defined this man in your mind before you have met him.

2. Your soul tells you that this man is right for you. There are no doubts.

3. You are friends as well as passionate lovers. Emotional and physical attraction for one another needs to be present. For a true soul mate relationship to occur, one cannot exist without the other.

4. Within the relationship, you have remained 100% true to yourself. If you have had to bend and twist yourself into someone whom you are not in order to be with the man you believe is your soulmate, then he is quite simply NOT your soulmate. If you have had to make huge sacrifices or compromises to your lifestyle, your goals and your dreams, then you are not with your soulmate. Simple as that.

5. He is fully aware of your deepest wishes, desires and dreams in life and he SUPPORTS them.

6. You have a deep commitment to the relationship and to realize each other’s individual goals and dreams within the relationship.

7. You trust this man and you are both loyal to one another.

8. The benefits of being with him far outweigh the costs.

9. Nothing could make you happier than being in love with this man.

10. You cannot imagine being away from this man for long periods.

11. You have a strong gut feeling that you are with the right man. You have eyes only for this man. If you keep thinking about another men, then this guy is not your soulmate. If you have a feeling that you are ‘settling’, then you are generally right. You are. Don’t!

12. You make magic together as a team. He supports your goals and dreams as much as you do his.

13. Your soul journeys seem to complement each other.

14. You share the same values and ideals in life, but respect your differences.

15. You want to tell each other everything and have nothing to hide from each other.

16. There are no unanswered questions about what this man is about. You have a good idea that you know the real him.

17. He makes you feel wonderful. You feel a sense of peace and confidence around him. There is no anxiety or insecurity that he may leave you for someone else. When he goes out, you do not think that he is looking for anyone else. You do not feel threatened by other women.

18. There is no sense of urgency – you do not feel that you need to sleep with him or do anything else in order to keep him.

19. You feel alive and energized with him.

20. He inspires you and makes you want to be a better person.

21. Together, you are a powerful force. As a team, you feel you can conquer the world. You feel that you can do anything together.

22. You do not need him to validate you or make you feel complete.

23. Time is an important element in determining whether a man is your soulmate. With time, you will have the benefit of shared experience. We believe that three to six months is a good indication to see whether this man is your soulmate. Seeing the way he reacts in a number of different situations is the best soulmate determiner.

Finding love is an exciting process that everyone should enjoy. Seize the opportunity to take action to find your soulmate so that you can live a fulfilling and happy life.