Dec 7

Finding Love

Knowing if the guy you have recently met, the man that sends your heart into a spin and creates a surge of adrenalin through your veins when he calls is really your soulmate and not just a lustful pleasure is vexing question to consider.

Often when finding love, we get swept away with the initial excitement of someone new.

Finding love, separating love and lust in the early days is difficult, if not impossible. More time together is required to really answer this question.

So in order to help our readers find out ‘how to know if he is my Soulmate’, we have put together some tips to help you through this process

1. You have defined this man in your mind before you have met him.

2. Your soul tells you that this man is right for you. There are no doubts.

3. You are friends as well as passionate lovers. Emotional and physical attraction for one another needs to be present. For a true soul mate relationship to occur, one cannot exist without the other.

4. Within the relationship, you have remained 100% true to yourself. If you have had to bend and twist yourself into someone whom you are not in order to be with the man you believe is your soulmate, then he is quite simply NOT your soulmate. If you have had to make huge sacrifices or compromises to your lifestyle, your goals and your dreams, then you are not with your soulmate. Simple as that.

5. He is fully aware of your deepest wishes, desires and dreams in life and he SUPPORTS them.

6. You have a deep commitment to the relationship and to realize each other’s individual goals and dreams within the relationship.

7. You trust this man and you are both loyal to one another.

8. The benefits of being with him far outweigh the costs.

9. Nothing could make you happier than being in love with this man.

10. You cannot imagine being away from this man for long periods.

11. You have a strong gut feeling that you are with the right man. You have eyes only for this man. If you keep thinking about another men, then this guy is not your soulmate. If you have a feeling that you are ‘settling’, then you are generally right. You are. Don’t!

12. You make magic together as a team. He supports your goals and dreams as much as you do his.

13. Your soul journeys seem to complement each other.

14. You share the same values and ideals in life, but respect your differences.

15. You want to tell each other everything and have nothing to hide from each other.

16. There are no unanswered questions about what this man is about. You have a good idea that you know the real him.

17. He makes you feel wonderful. You feel a sense of peace and confidence around him. There is no anxiety or insecurity that he may leave you for someone else. When he goes out, you do not think that he is looking for anyone else. You do not feel threatened by other women.

18. There is no sense of urgency – you do not feel that you need to sleep with him or do anything else in order to keep him.

19. You feel alive and energized with him.

20. He inspires you and makes you want to be a better person.

21. Together, you are a powerful force. As a team, you feel you can conquer the world. You feel that you can do anything together.

22. You do not need him to validate you or make you feel complete.

23. Time is an important element in determining whether a man is your soulmate. With time, you will have the benefit of shared experience. We believe that three to six months is a good indication to see whether this man is your soulmate. Seeing the way he reacts in a number of different situations is the best soulmate determiner.

Finding love is an exciting process that everyone should enjoy. Seize the opportunity to take action to find your soulmate so that you can live a fulfilling and happy life.

Nov 27

“How can I find my Soulmate?”- Taking A Close Look At Yourself Can Help You Find Them

Find My Soulmate

Are you always asking yourself, “Why can’t I find my soulmate?”.
Are you presenting yourself in a manner in which your soulmate would find appealing? What kind of personality would your soulmate possess? Would they laugh with you, love with you and be free with you? Then are YOU fun? Happy? Are you loving enough? Are you being free enough with yourself that they can see the real and true you?

If you become what YOU yourself are looking for in a soulmate, or become complementary to what you are looking for, then you will be ready to attract what you are looking for.

This means you will have to go out of your comfort zone and realize some personal growth. Most people are not that aware of themselves. They think everyone should be just like them, but then, that is why they are never truly happy. If you want to have a soulmate who completes you, then you must dig deep and do what needs to be done to attract them to you. No else is at fault for your own faults or weaknesses. The only one responsible for you, is you! It’s time to do something about it. By acknowledging that this will be a lifestyle change, you are taking the first step to creating a better life for yourself.

Now it is time to get out there and do it! And don’t think about this as a chore, because YOU are going to reap all the rewards and benefits from TRANSFORMING yourself into a BETTER you!

Write down what you want in a soulmate, once you have done that, take the next vital step. Ask yourself: ‘What do I need to BE, DO, and HAVE in order to attract my soulmate?’

Example:

If you admire a man who is in shape and well kept, then more than likely he is not going to find an overweight, uninspired woman as a mate. So you would have to start BEING fit and healthy-minded. This can happen by you actually working out and starting to change your diet. This would also require you to get signed up at your local gym, commit to going at least 4 times a week and by eating healthy foods both at home and at work. Get the gist?

You need to make this list and check it twice.

Who do I need to BE to attract and find my soulmate?

1.__________________________________________________________

2._________________________________________________________

3.__________________________________________________________

4.__________________________________________________________

5.__________________________________________________________

What do I need to DO to attract my soulmate?

1._________________________________________________________

2.__________________________________________________________

3.__________________________________________________________

4.__________________________________________________________

5.__________________________________________________________

And the most important, is that list of QUALITIES you already possess that would make your ideal soulmate look at you!

1.__________________________________________________________

2.___________________________________________________________

3.__________________________________________________________

4._________________________________________________________

5._________________________________________________________

The next step of your transformation is to take one item from each list and start working on it, changing it or improving it.

Be the best of who you really are. Remember what you wrote about what you wanted for yourself and your life? That’s where you want to place your focus from now on.

Let’s go back to the original list you made of the qualities you would like your soulmate to possess. Read through it again and find out how you can round him out. How would you complete him?

You already have special and unique qualities and characteristics that your soulmate will appreciate and that will really enhance your relationship. These are the qualities you are going to capitalize on.

So, what other traits will you be able to incorporate to make that happen?

If you are being the very best you can be, you will radiate a certain aura – a confident and happy one – which will attract your soulmate more easily to you. When you start to exude these feelings, you will never have to wonder where your soulmate is, because they will come looking for you! Nothing will draw people more to you than when you feel comfortable in your own skin.

Take the first step in faith. You don’t have to see the whole staircase. Just take the first step – MARTIN LUTHER KING JR.

Hopefully by taking this process, you won’t be asking how do i find my soulmate“? again.

Check out the real system if you would like to know more about ‘how to find my soulmate‘

Nov 26

Finding Love its Raining Men

Did you know that the US has nearly 300 million people living within its borders today.

Half of those are men, and 45% of those men are single.

50% of men married for the first time will become divorced; and 70% of those men who marry a second time will divorce again.

This means that your odds for finding love are EXCELLENT! The idea that there are no good men available in the US is completely false!

But sitting around waiting for your soulmate to drop from the sky will never happen.

A lot of people approach a relationship in the same way as they do their jobs.

As children, perhaps they had big dreams of growing up to be a movie star or a fireman, but as time went on, they gave up on these ideas and settled for what life dealt them. There is a reason why 90% of people report hating their present jobs.

And why 50% of all marriages fail.

The same goes for relationships. It is unrealistic, and ridiculous, to think your soulmate will come galloping along on a white horse, raise his helmet and say, “I’ve found you at last!”. It can be a lot easier to find love.

Taking a proactive approach is the only way you will find your soulmate. You need to make a plan and take action immediately.

It is your responsibility to find your soulmate. Yours and only yours.

Soulmate tip: Finding your soulmate will not happen by accident. It happens because you plan to make it happen.

ENSURING YOUR OWN SUCCESS

Perhaps the biggest mistake that single women make when looking to meet someone is to launch themselves onto the dating scene without any preparation, having no idea what they want or what is out there.

There is a name for the formula they use.

It’s the Soulmate Failure Formula.

Go looking for a man when you don’t know what you want.

Date the first man you find because you’re tired of being single.

Keep dating even though you know he is not the right man for you.

Tell him what he wants to hear until he agrees to walk down the aisle.

If you have all the time in the world do waste, and you don’t mind living with your mistake for the rest of your life then this is the way to go about it. This is what most people end up doing. But if you really want to find your soulmate and be happy you will have to learn another way to do things.

Soulmate Success Formula

KNOW who you TRULY are.

Be able to define EXACTLY what you want in a soulmate.

FOCUS on what you want. VISUALIZE this person ALL THE TIME.

It takes ACTION to find your soulmate.

Finding love is really just that simple.

Apr 30

Using the Law of Attraction in Attracting Soulmates

There are so many things that can be said about using the Law of Attraction in attracting soulmates, here are some thoughts for now…

Treat yourself how you want your soul mate to be. See in yourself the things you are looking for.

Often people are looking for qualities on the outside which they feel they do not have on the inside, they project them onto the outside world and expect it to compensate for what they’re looking for within, whether that be confidence, love, self value, beauty, wealth, etc etc

If you got your soul mate what would you have? What would you feel? And how/where are in your life currently relative to this?

If when you ask that you get a positive emotion then your soul mate’s on their way. If it’s not so positive and you feel your soul mate will provide these, work on having these qualities in your life – and I say qualities, which is FEEL as if you have them, live from the place of having them. You can feel beautiful no matter how you look, you can feel wealthy no matter how much you have. Your skill is in seeing the beauty, wealth (or any other quality). If you can’t see it how can you expect someone else to?

You will then find you’re not looking for your soul mate in the same way – because you have what you’re looking for, and your soul mate will be an expression of that, rather than trying to fill a gap so to speak, it will be a different feeling/experience – but in turn you are also more attractive (spiritually/vibrationally) for what you’re looking for and you are getting closer to it. As your attention is on what you have (than on what you lack), that will manifest on a physical level. You will also be more ‘attractive’ and people will be drawn to you because they will feel it vibrationally. They will see you are not looking towards others to fill something you feel may be lacking but instead are in your own joy and they will want to be a part of it, and it grows and grows

In actual fact, everything and everyone you attract is your ’soulmate’ because everything is from spirit (where you have come from too) and everything you experience is a match to the vibrational signal you are giving, though classically it’s referred to as that wonderful magical synchronistic experience.

Line up in seeing the magic within you and allow it to express itself…

Hemal Radia’s background is as a Coach and Trainer. Early on he learnt NLP and worked with clients and ran seminars and found more and more that his love was the more spiritual nature of Manifesting and Law of Attraction.

He has enjoyed working in lining up his energy and attracting wonderful things in his life and in working with others in doing the same.

Have a great day!

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Apr 29

Six Ways to Lose Your Soul Mate

Soul mates. The very phrase conjures up images of happily-ever-after and someone to lean on when things get tough. And then…reality check. You find yourself sitting home watching Blind Date with a boxful of tissues because your supposed soul mate ditched you for that co-worker you just knew was putting the moves on your one and only.

No one likes to be in this situation, but it’s happened to the best of us. As they say, some things are meant to be, but were there some things that could have been preventable?

Here are six ways to lose your soul mate and how you can avoid every single one of them:

1. Become his mother

It was once believed that in order to keep a soul mate you had to show your soul mate that you could do everything for him his Mama used to do: cook those nice, big Sunday dinners, mend his shirts, and basically be at his beck and call whenever he was in dire need of guidance. Okay, a bit old-fashioned, but you’d be amazed how many women still do this. While it’s a great thing to show your mate how much you care by cooking him a pot roast dinner after a long day at work, it gets a little overbearing when it’s starting to look like he married his mother and not the vibrant, young woman he fell in love with. What women sometimes don’t realize is that the man doesn’t want to be married to his mother; he wants to be married to you. Be yourself and mesmerize him with your own talents. It’ll pay off in the long run.

2. Doubt his word when he gives you no reason to do so

Trust is one of the most important things in a relationship. If you can’t trust your mate, you may as well hang it up. It’s not going to work. If you have doubts about his honesty, something is wrong. Unless you can work it out whatever is bothering you, the relationship will fail.

To learn how to trust is to learn how to take attention off of him or her and focus it on yourself. Do what makes you happy and before you know it, unless he or she gives you reasons to feel otherwise, everything will fall into place. If it still doesn’t, rethink the relationship and move on.

3. Play the silent treatment

One of the most important characteristics of the soul mate relationship is communication. If you can’t say what’s on your mind without your significant other going off the deep end, something is definitely wrong. Repressing your thoughts and opinions is stifling your self-growth as you know, so say what’s on your mind without bottling it up. Your soul mate will respect that and think more of you.

4. Rely on your soul mate to make you happy

I must have preached this a million times. No one can make you happy but yourself. If you have to have someone in your life or if you rely on your soul mate to provide the happiness that you can’t provide yourself, what is going to happen is that your soul mate is going to back off because the relationship is off balance. To create a happy and harmonious relationship with your soul mate, do things you love to do and became the person someone would want to love.

5. Crowd his/her space

Togetherness goes hand in hand for the soul mate relationship, but what happens when there’s no time for exploring one’s self? While we may or may not be aware of it, we’re creating an atmosphere of total consumption. Allow your mate to have interests outside of yours and you do the same. Before long, you’ll be creating a well-rounded and happy relationship that will last a lifetime.

6. Take the other one for granted

Finally, don’t let day-to-day routine become so monotonous that you forget the wonderful person you fell in love with. It’s easy to do because as time wears on, you both become comfortable with one another and it’s only natural you take their love for granted. While this stage in a relationship is gratifying, don’t forget the reason why your soul mate has come into your life and show him or her every day how thankful you are that they are in your life.

Author, relationship coach and soul mate expert Dorothy Thompson is one of the nation’s leading authorities on soul mates. Her book ROMANCING THE SOUL and e-books HOW TO FIND AND KEEP YOUR SOUL MATE and 101 FACTS YOU NEVER KNEW ABOUT SOUL MATES are three of the most comprehensive guides to explaining what soul mates are really all about. You can visit her website at http://www.soulmatequeen.com

Apr 28

How to Visualize the Things You Want

Visualization is by far one of the most powerful tools for good setting and attracting what you want. Yet few people know how to properly visualize. With the right technique you can begin to see outstanding results in successfully attracting what you want, granted you full apply what you learn.

First you are visualizing all the time. You may not be aware of it but you are always conjuring up images in your mind. When you are speaking on the telephone to someone you are most of ten times trying to see in your mind what they are telling you. You also visualize when you are deep in thought. When you are worrying about paying your debt or worrying about the way you would really like to live your life you are also visualizing what you want.

The hard part however is to use that creative force to actually attract the things you want. This is where many people go terribly wrong.

Here is a great test to help you understand the most effective way visualize. Think of the last time you were deep in thought. Now try to remember what that felt like. If you can recall that time, you will notice that you were deep inside of yourself. You were unaware of anyone or anything and as you were allowing yourself to visualize you could feel clearly that you were having the experience as if it were real. That is the power of visualization.

When people ask all the time How do I visualize the things I want, I tell them the same way you visualize the things that you don’t want. You see when you are feeling anxious and fearful you lock yourself away in your inner mind with those images. You loose sight of other possibilities and if it is something that happened to you, then you recreate it in its full detail with all your emotions all over again.

Try to immerse yourself with full emotions when you are trying to create the things you want. Many thoughts may come to distract you but if you will redirect your mind to what you do want your mind will be trained to hold that thought.

There are many tools and techniques that can greatly empower your ability to visualize if you really have a hard time. You can add extreme magnetism to any mental image you want to create as long as you apply the right technique.

Do you know that there are ancient techniques that can increase your manifesting intentions and attract what you want even faster than ever? Visit http://www.cosmic-wealth.com/lawofattraction to learn more about these secrets teachings. Daniel Hinds is the author of the powerful ebook Magic Money.

Apr 27

The Incredible Power of Intention in Manifesting

A lot has been said about the power of intention, yet many still do not get its true significance. This article is written with the intention (no pun intended) to clarify by looking at the mental components and processes of intention. Once you have seen the full picture, it will be easier to understand why intention is so powerful.

One of the limitations of conveying a message or meaning with words is that the word itself has deeper meanings which we do not see, thus we miss out the deeper processes and qualities that are associated with the particular word. Intention is one such word. To understand it, we need to look deeper.

Definition of Intention

The definition of intention is, according to Merriam Webster Online Dictionary, a determination to act in a certain way. Intention, therefore, is a desire to act. We can see here that there are two very important components to the quality of intention.

The first is the desire or determination and the second is the action involved. For intention to work for you, both components must be there.

Desire

The desire we talk about here is one that is clear and is associated with a will or determination to act on the desire. This clear desire or intent in our mind is our asking or letting the universe know that this is what we want to manifest. The act of publicly declaring your intention works to clarify what you want as well as to strengthen your resolve to act on it. You become committed. You are bound by your words. You also weakened your inner resistance to your stated intention.

When your intention is clear, the universe can easily process the instructions you gave it. This is in contrast to a wishy-washy, uncertain, non-committal kind of desire or wanting that serves only to confuse the universe and everyone else trying to help you. Ask and it is given, and with a clear committed intention, the universe obediently gives you what you asked for.

The Art of Allowing

However, asking is only the first step in the process of creation. The next step is allowing yourself to receive. This process of allowing is not as simple as it seems for it requires great faith in the universe. You cannot receive if you do not believe that the universe will provide.

This is an interesting paradox.

When you do not believe that the universe will provide, then you get exactly what you believe. In this case, you get nothing. When this happens, then it unfortunately reinforced your lack of trust in the universe and perpetuates the vicious cycle of distrust in the universe. On the other hand, when you have absolute faith in the universe, you get what you believe and what you asked for gets manifested for you.

Thus the world’s most famous manifestor said, “Ask and know that it is done, and you shall receive it.”

In short, ask – believe – receive!

So, what can we do if we do not believe in the universe? How can we replace this limiting belief with a better one? There are in fact many methods to transform our beliefs. We will delve into this in another article.

Action

To receive, you have to act on the little coincidences, synchronicity and opportunities that seem to come to you at the right place at the right time. Acting on them in alignment with your intention will move you towards your goal, which is the manifested product of your intention. Intention, then, is the cause and your goal manifested the effect. This is true for all creation.

Each must begin in the mind (intention) and ends in physical manifestation (form).

Dr. Tim Ong is a medical doctor who runs his own thriving medical practice. In his free time, he enjoys giving public talks, teaching meditation and offering his service to hospice work in the community. He also has keen interest in self improvement, mind science and spirituality. Dr. Ong is the webmaster of Kayaria.com, MindScience101.com and TheSelfImprovementSite.com.

Apr 26

At Last! The Law of Attraction Clearly Explained

Are you ready for this?

It really is a LAW.

Okay! It is not the kind you find at city hall, in law books or even at law school.

It is the kind that is happening all the time. I really mean, all the time, every second in your life.

Whether you are in a good mood, bad mood or unsure of how you feel it is happening every moment.

You are constantly attracting things into your life whether you are conscious of it or not.

More importantly you are attracting in your life right now, and right now and right now.

You are attracting exactly what it is that you do want in to your life.

Yes! You read that right.

What is happening is that you are giving your energy, attention and focus to whatever it is that you are attracting and getting more and more of the same thing over and over again.

You know the kind of things that you just love and want more and more of.

You could also being attracting the awful things that you just hate and would rather not have in your life.

Those kinds of things where you felt like you have abundance in your life and then those kinds of things where you felt lack or scarcity in your life.

What this all means is that you have attracted all of it, whether it is good or bad.

You are responsible for whatever comes into your life.

I know that for some of you that is painful to hear.

I can hear you saying right now “Why in the world would I do something like that?”

You have two kinds of thoughts and you may only be aware of your conscious thoughts and there is another kind of thought that is very, very powerful.

These thoughts are in the background and those thoughts are the ones that are attracting what you are getting into your life.

These are called subconscious thoughts. When they are in harmony with what you consciously intend to attract then this is what you will attract.

And when this happens life is great!

Have you ever had thoughts and beliefs, and somehow they were not a match to your conscious dreams and your wishes and you didn’t attract what you wanted no matter how much you wanted it?

Here is why! Those subconscious beliefs have more strength than your conscious beliefs.

For some of you this may be what runs your life.

Now forget about blaming yourself or feeling guilty. After all, you weren’t aware of the unconscious beliefs working in a way that they have in been in your life until maybe now.

Now that you are aware, you can do something different.

When you get rid of the inner self limiting beliefs this helps to speed up the Law of Attraction and get whatever it is you’re trying to achieve or attract.

Hang on to your hat! It happens fast.

You will be using the Law of Attraction deliberately and intentionally

You will have the Law of Attraction work for you all of the time rather than, some of the time and in way that you want.

Now you can experienced the incredible power of the Law of Attraction, and take it to a whole new level when eliminating those self limiting beliefs.

When you do this your subconscious beliefs will match your conscious beliefs and magic will happen in your life using the Law of Attraction.

Copyright © 2008 Beverly Boston. Beverly Boston. If you like this article, and want to learn more about how I help women ages 50-55 also known as “prime time” women who are struggling because they continually seem to be attracting the wrong kinds of relationships. Some women seem to attract negative people or maybe even situations again and again and they do don’t know why. But what I do is I really help women attract the ideal relationship, partner or opportunity. You know what? Have you ever seen the movie called “The Secret”? Oh! Well that movie talked about the Law of Attraction and a lot of people I work with really want to know about it but they don’t know where to go, so I show them exactly how to do this and how to apply it to their life. I help women attract ideal relationships, friends, opportunities plus much, much more. This is just really the beginning! For more information visit http://beverlyboston.wordpress.com or call 604-727-4363

Apr 24

Is The Law of Attraction Broken? How Do I Find My Soulmate When I Can’t Even Get a Date!

“Men and women are human magnets. Just as a steel magnet drawn through a pile of rubbish will pull out only the things, which have an affinity for it, so we are constantly drawing to us, establishing relations with, the things and the people that respond to our thoughts and ideals.”

-Orison Swett Marden

Ladies, I have a question for you: Do you wonder why you can’t find your dream man? Do you long for a soulmate, your one true love, that man who will whisk you away to your happily ever after? If you do, ask yourself this: Why haven’t you found him yet? And, while you’re flashing back on all the reasons why, consider this…

The Universal Law of Attraction states that people are like magnets. A magnet attracts iron ore because that’s what it’s made up of. People attract other people who are “made up” of the same stuff, like hopes, desires, fears, feelings, and so on. For example, in a very basic way, when you smile at somebody, do people smile back at you? Yes, most often they do. This is the law of attraction working. When you smile people are drawn to your positive energy, it makes them feel good, and as a result they smile back which makes you feel good; like attracting like.

So, do you think this law of attraction is true in your own life? Do you believe you can you really attract the positive and negative just like a magnet? The things you want-like money, power, and confidence? Even the things you don’t want-debt, conflict, or poor self image? How about love…do you think you can use this law to attract your one true love just as surely as to attract not-so-good relationships? Let’s explore this a little further by thinking about how you talk to your girlfriends about men, dating, and love.

When you’re chatting with the girls, do you hear yourself saying things like “I’m never going to find my Mr. Right” or “There must be something wrong with me,” or “I hate dating,” or “My one true love must not exist,” or “I don’t believe in soulmates.”? If you do, do you think such negative thoughts and expressions as these have any connection with why you haven’t found your true love yet? Or, do you think they’re totally unconnected and that at any moment your dream man is going to materialize out of thin air, whisk you off your feet, and you’ll live happily ever after? If you think the latter, it’s time for a reality check!

Ask yourself this: Would *you* be attracted to a man who had such a woe-is-me attitude, low self esteem, negative outlook on life, and no dreams for his relationship future? Um, I didn’t think so. So why should a man be attracted to you if this is the “man magnet” you’re casting out into the world?

Skill skeptical? Still think a man is magically going to appear? Still want to buck the law of attraction? Don’t worry; you’re absolutely right: A man *will* appear. He’ll likely be Mr. Wrong, ready to exploit your self-doubt, and if he doesn’t make your life miserable right away, he’ll at least keep you from finding somebody better…for a long time to come! And, if by that time your attitude still hasn’t changed, the next man you’ll attract isn’t going to be Mr. Wrong, he’s going to be Mr. Really Wrong!

You see, try to resist it as you will, when you affirm these negative messages and desires, you are calling on the law of attraction to work for you. And, dutifully, obediently, and without question, it will. The only problem is that you’re asking the universe to send you the *opposite* of what you truly want!

Now, you’re in a real pickle because you’ve got what you asked for, but it’s not what you want. When you state “I don’t want this or that” and “I don’t need such and such,” it’s exactly what you attract. Then you find yourself wondering why you “just can’t get a break,” “why everybody else is falling in love but me,” and you’re left to wallow in the idea that you’re “going to grow old alone.” If this is how you feel, you’re not alone. Many women (and, yes, men, too) don’t know how to affirm what they *do* want. They only know how to define what they do *not* want. In affirming the negative, this is the very thing they attract.

But, before you get mad at the law of attraction, you must realize “it” doesn’t care one way or the other if you’re happy or sad, with Mr. Right or Mr. Wrong. The law works without judgment, without bias, and without any sentiment of “I sure hope she finds her dream man this time!” If you want to begin attracting your true love, then things are going to need to change and *you* are going to need to be the one who changes them.

Change your focus to the positive, to the self affirming, and to your ideal, and your man magnetism is going to start attracting your Mr. Right (and, likely, many of them!) immediately.

You might be asking yourself, “Gee, this all sounds good, but how the heck do I actually stop focusing on a lifetime of bad dates, dead-end relationships, and deadbeat guys?” or “Hey, I don’t even know where to begin imagining who my true love or ideal man really is. How do I get started?” I’m glad you asked!

You can start making the universal law of attraction work in your favor by answering seven super simple questions:

1. Define the type of relationship you want

“I want to meet the man of my dreams,” isn’t going to cut it. Be specific (e.g., “I want to find a husband who is passionate about his career and loves kids. He enjoys cycling and picnics in the park.” or “I desire to have a wild love affair with a French man who has curly black hair and brown eyes.” or “I would love to go on a romantic date with a man who buys me flowers and makes me laugh.”).

2. How does this man treat you?

(e.g., He takes me out to dinner, buys me flowers, holds my hand, finds my jokes funny, tells me I am beautiful, pampers me and treats me like a princess, rubs my feet after a long day…)

3. How does it feel when you are with him?

(e.g., I tremble when he brushes past me, my heart beats faster when I hear his name, we talk and talk for hours as if we have known each other for years, I feel safe when his strong arms are around me, it is like music to my ears when I hear his laughter…)

4. What does he look like?

(e.g., He has a warm smile, big muscles, blonde hair and green eyes, black hair and brown eyes, curly brown hair, tall/short, dark/fair skinned, freckles…))

5. What does he do for fun?

(e.g., Work out at the gym, listen to/play music, cycle, play golf/football/tennis, eat out, go to bars/clubs, hiking, mountain climbing, reading, swimming, travel…)

6. Where will you meet this man?

(e.g., I meet him at an airport, sports bar, night club, on the internet, through friends, by chance, at a wedding, in the grocery/video store, library, at the beach, gym, tennis club…)

7. How will you know you’ve found him?

(e.g., He proposes to me on a starry night. We are lying together on a sandy beach listening to the waves crashing against the shore. I wake up in the morning to find him making me breakfast in the kitchen. Our eyes meet across a crowded room and he comes over and asks me to dance…)

When you have answered all of these questions, you are ready to let the law of attraction start working for you. You know exactly what you are looking for, where to find it, and how to know when you have found it. So now all you have to do is take a few minutes to think over your responses, and then close your eyes and imagine the man of your dreams. See him, hear him, touch him, feel him…even taste him!

Take time to affirm these positive images daily. Breathe in deeply letting the air fill every cell in your body with the image of what you desire. With every exhalation feel the peace and joy that comes with knowing your desire is already fulfilled…and it really is…the universal law of attraction *will* start drawing your dream man (or men!) to you almost immediately.

Don’t believe me? Give it a try and see the results for yourself. Isn’t it time for you to recognize your magnetic potential within and-snap-start attracting your perfect man now?

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Apr 23

Soul Mates – Discovering Yours

Soul mates

Namaste, a Hindu expression, roughly translates into “that which is of the Divine in me greets that which is of the Divine in you.” And when we reflect on this simple expression, we find that the Sanskrit language of the soul resonates with us all on a deeper, more spiritual level — and this is how, too, many a soul can reacquaint itself with its identical counterpart.

Believe it or not, our intuition plays an essential role in discovering exactly who our soul mates are. Throughout our lifetimes, we have certainly come upon an individual to whom we’re inclined. Suddenly, you feel this sense of “knowing” — though you’ve never met that person before. And, it is in that “chance meeting” that we discover how much alike we are. The “chance meeting,” however, is no accident; a matter of fact, it is not by chance at all. There are no “accidents” in life. Remember, every encounter and every facet of our lives is laid out for us to explore — including the journey in finding our soul mates.

Whether or not one believes in the possibility of reincarnation, it is important to note that each of us has at one time or another met an individual to whom we’ve been drawn like a magnet. Accordingly, our mutual bond helps us to rediscover the life light in each other. Perhaps in a not-too-distant past, we shared experiences and/or love, and that is what has drawn us together. There are NO accidents in these “chance encounters.”

But how do you discover your soul mate? That depends entirely on how evolved you are on a spiritual plane. Euphoric love is such a heightened state of emotional awareness that one could liken this feeling to the ultimate high. And when we have opened ourselves up to invite another into our sacred space of love, we often discover the vast similarities of our likes and dislikes…but that is simply not enough to awaken our soul mate experience. One must resolve to live in an absolute state of awareness, unlike “euphoric love,” but that of Divine love to reignite the passion and discovery of one’s soul mate.

You see, the difference between a state of euphoria and a relaxed state of heightened awareness is that our sense of heightened awareness is what essentially gives us the innate ability to “see” who are twin soul mate is; not like euphoria — the beginning stage of infatuation, which can sometimes blind us from the truth of the matter.

So here we are, another Valentine’s Day, and we still haven’t discovered our soul mate — don’t be discouraged. Many travelers haven’t found their soul mate because they’ve been all-consumed by either euphoria or emotional blockages. But don’t despair; there is a way to rediscover your twin flame in the vast expanse that we call Earth: First, we must throw out all preconceptions and misconception of what love is supposed to be. There are no perfect physical unions, but there can be perfect spiritual unions. And when we resolve to love others with absolute love, we discover a whole new realm of life.

If you haven’t honed in on your inner wisdom, now is the time to do so. Now ask yourself, “Am I looking for love?” or “Am I seeking my soul mate?” Which of the two do you desire most? If you’ve decided on the latter and truly want to reunite your soul mates, then you must nurture your inner consciousness. Awaken your mind through meditation, peaceful reflection and gear up for the expedition of your life. If you are intended to meet your soul mate, you will. The intention, however, must coexist in both your mental and emotional being. To achieve this state of awareness, you must be focused on your anticipated result.

How do you know if you’ve met your soul mate? Like two small embers, sparks will ignite an inferno of emotions. You will be flooded with a sense of “knowingness” on a very soul-full level. This is not euphoria, rather, a very intense state of emotional, mental, and spiritual unity that transcends the normalcy of physical love. The nicest part of this soul mate reunion is that once you have received it, it remains steadfast in your life. The flames can never be distinguished.

Are you ready to explore and fulfill your destiny with your soul mate? All things are possible through God — and yes, even finding your soul mate is one of those possibilities. Understand that like all goals in life, the quest for finding our soul mate takes effort and patience. Enlighten yourself by reigniting your life light…the rest will come in time.

Until we speak again, I am

Joan Marie, your Intuition Expert

About the Author: Joan Marie Whelan, an internationally known intuitive specialist, business consultant, medium, and coach travels throughout the United States sharing her gifts and the Manifestation Method with solo-preneurs, professionals, small business owners, and large companies. Her much anticipated first book, “Self- Discovery: The Nine Principles to Reveal Your Sacred Gifts” will be published later this year. For more information about Joan Marie and her upcoming, exclusive events, please go to: http://www.joanmariewhelan.com