There’s nothing I love more than a good romantic movie. Richard Gere overcoming his fear of heights to proclaim his love to Julia Roberts in “Pretty Woman” gives me a warm fuzzy feeling inside.
I remember crying my eyes out in “13 Going on 30″ because I wanted that type of love. I knew it existed but I never believed it could happen for me.
Ironically during my lack of love life at that time, I was helping many people connect and fall in love. I was happy on the surface and encouraged my clients to open their heart when I did Soul Mate readings and workshops yet I felt hopeless inside. “Fake it till you make it” was my mantra.
I read women’s dating books like “The Rules,” that gave me temporary strength. Yes, I’ll teach those men that I’m in control and I’m powerful and I don’t need any man.
The problem was, my soul was upset with me. My soul told me “Joanna, this is not the way to find true love.”
“Why?” I asked my spirit guide.
“Because you’re not in alignment with your heart’s desire.”
“But I have to be strong or men will walk all over me and I’ll get my heart broken again.”
“Joanna, you’re missing the point. The key to attracting your Soul Mate is you have to be true to yourself.”
“What do you mean, true to myself?”
“When you’re busy during your day and someone phones on your cell, do you stop what you’re doing?”
“No, I focus on my work.”
“If someone you’re attracted to who makes your heart skip a beat phones do you answer?”
“No, maybe, yes.”
“The key is to live on purpose in your life. Stay focused on your goals. Give attention to and nurture your creativity. When you stop the flow and go outside of your own energy because “He” is calling you, the alignment of your soul gets knocked off track.”
“How?”
“You get those terrible butterflies in your stomach when he doesn’t call, right?”
“Yes, what does it mean?”
“It means that the love cannot last, even if he is a Soul Mate because you’re not taking care of yourself. The secret is to commit to your life purpose and then you shall attract your Soul Mate to you like a Magnet”.
I took my spirit guide’s advice and stopped answering my cell phone if I was in the middle of work. If I was feeling vulnerable, I’d turn off my phone and stay away from email until I’d completed all my tasks for the day.
I started to feel great that I was taking care of myself. My self esteem began to increase and soon after that I attracted my husband into my life.
America’s Intuition Coach™ Joanna Garzilli helps Soul Mates experience a love connection worldwide. Are you ready to live passionately? Joanna shares her insider soul mate secrets in “Synchronicity News” a FREE bi-monthly ezine. Learn more http://www.joannagarzilli.com
She currently teaches “How To Attract Your Soul Mate” and “Trust Your Intuition” at The Bodhi Tree Annex West Hollywood, The Aura Shop Santa Monica, and Vision Quest Bookstore Scottsdale Arizona. Joanna has featured as a clairvoyant on MTV. She lives in Los Angeles with her husband Nick, dog and two cats.
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